How To Save On a Wedding

This is a guest post by Sharon Smith. She offers advice on frugal living and various debt management programs. She can be contacted at findsharonsmith@gmail.com

Church Bells, Wedding Day,
Dating Hell gone away,
What I've Dreamed all my life,
soon to be man and wife.

Are you humming this in your mind? Is it time for you to get betrothed? This is one of the biggest moments in our life. We tie the knot and take vows to be together for a lifetime. Getting pronounced and Man and Wife always call for a beautiful ceremony. Even I had one, so in order to fulfill my desire I got too extravagant and had to part with all my savings. However the lesson here is for a beautiful wedding you need not always put your bank balance at stake. Instead a smart approach towards spending can fetch a better result. Through my own experience I can throw some light on how you can save money on wedding with out giving up on the grandeur of your dream marriage.

Stop spending all your fortune behind wedding. Money can never buy love as the adage goes. So a good planning and some frugal tips can really make your D day worth cherishing.

Here are snippets of some of those frugal wedding mantras that I learnt from my wedding and now letting it out to you.

Wedding guest list needs to be pruned: You can save an enormous amount of cash if you start pruning your guest list. Often there are people who are your acquaintance and not friend. Try to cancel them from the list. Call people who are close to you and your family. Don't take the pressure of inviting all your office colleagues. Invite only the couples instead of inviting their whole family that includes the children.

Save on wedding invitation card as well as on postage: Send an e- card instead of a printed card. It would surely help you save a lot. You can also order a plain invitation and decorate it yourself. Show your creative streak. It's fun! Instead of a reply card ask your near and dear ones to reply on line. This also saves you postage expenses.

Make your wedding dress, make up and hair simple yet elegant: Simplicity is the toughest job. Did you know that? With expensive gowns or an uptown hair-do, you can always look beautiful. But a simple and classic look can actually make your fiancé smitten by love! Try not to hire a designer to design your gown as they won't give you some thing out of the world. If your mother's wedding gown is in perfect condition then you can alter as well as redesign it and use it for your self. It would be nostalgic wearing your mother's wedding gown. This would save a lot of money too. Try to hire someone who is competent in hair do as well as in make up.

Use cash instead of credit cards: Try to use cash while you go out for shopping instead of depending on the credit cards. There is always a tendency to spend more when we use these plastic cards. It becomes really difficult to pay off the piling debts soon after marriage. If you do not use the credit card then you do not have to settle credit card debt. If you get things on cash you can keep a check on the amount you are spending. It would even restrain you from being a spendthrift as well as help you to save money without incurring debts.

Save money on decoration: Decoration means making the wedding place beautiful. That can be a simple gladiola or some nice white drapes! So you can always choose something that will cost you less. You need not go for a rose-laden pathway. Rather just sprinkle some wild flowers and walk away with your spouse. What is important is being together. Before shopping for the decorative item go through an Internet search looking for the cheap stores and bargain prices. Dollar stores have nice and simple products that can be used as an item for decoration like candles, candle holders and plastic flowers. Use silk flower to decorate the reception venue and the church. Silk flowers instead of original flowers can be pocket friendly. The flowers can be too expensive especially during the off season. So some chic artificial flowers can also make your day. Save money by getting silk flowers.

Select a cost-effective menu when it comes to Wedding Food and Drink: Wedding calls for sumptuous brunch or a nice cocktail dinner. But you can always go for a simple yet filling menu. Talk to your caterer stating the motive that you are planning to save money. They would tell you whether a buffet would be less expensive than a seated dinner. The liquor provided by the caterer might cost you more as they would levy extra tax on the total amount. It would be cheaper for you to shop for the liquor in a bulk as they might give you concession. Serve the cocktail after the dinner is laid. And if your fiancé is not too fond of drinking then you may consider organizing a dry wedding.

Don't hire a professional photographer: Even if you hire a professional photographer give him the contract to capture some special moment. If you ask him to take picture of the whole occasion then he might charge you much more. You can afford to pay him for few snaps he would be clicking. Ask your family members and friends to click the wedding photographs. There might be few members in the family as well in the friend circle who can be talented enough to take photographs. In this you can avoid the unnecessary expenses of hiring a professional photographer.

Take my word and do what others might not have done before. A simple wedding can be way above an expensive ceremony. Get closer with your family and friends on this auspicious day! The essence is being together and sharing the best moment of your life! You can have a beautiful wedding and save money at the same time. Just make sure, not to start your newly married life on debts.

Truth Behind Common Financial Advice and Conventional Wisdom

This is a guest post by Mr Credit Card from www.askmrcreditcard.com. Mr Credit Card normally writes about credit card reviews, debt reduction topics and his site obviously has got tons of credit card offers. He has also put together a list of the best credit card offers and deals. Please check out his blog and subscribe to his rss feed. Today, Mr Credit Card is going to branch out and write about a topic that we should all be aware of. So here is his post

If you read the mainstream press and even most personal finance blogs, you will have come across many standard common advice. However, if you look deeper into these "standard advice or thinking", you will find that most of them are just not true or that it comes with a few caveats. Today, I am going to highlight some of these and hope that you will be more discerning whenever the mainstream press gives any so called "standard" advice.

The stock market always goes up in the long run - This common statement derived from studies in the US only from 1926 till present day. Some studies went further back to the late 1800s and came to the same conclusion. Based on this "empirical evidence", the common advice now had been to telling folks that in the 'long run', stocks are always the place to be. Problem with this analysis is that there are many assumptions that have been left out.

The first is that this study holds true only in the US because the United States. In countries like Russia (where communism happened in 1917, or parts of Europe, where there were 2 major world wars in the last century, or even in South America), this conclusion is simply nonsense. Germany went through hyperinflation in the 1930s and a change in currency. One that was pegged to gold and one that was not. South American countries went from being the richest nations in the world to one with massive debt problems in the 80s and 90s. If you were living in those countries, this 1926 US stock market analysis is meaningless when your country faces crisis of epic proportions.

Truth - It only went up in the US (and perhaps Britain) from the time frame of analysis. But bear in mind that the US has not been conquered in war in the last century. We have not had massive currency devaluations or flight of capital. Being careful of the definition of long run. There have been 20 year stretches where the US stock markets did nothing. So if you do not have a 20 year horizon or longer, be very wary about putting the bulk of your money in stocks.

US treasury bills and bonds are the safest investments - The US government treasury bills is considered the safest investments because the US government has never defaulted on its debt obligations. And hence, its historical yield is used in calculations. Because of such assumptions, academics have used the yields on treasury bills as the "risk free asset" (for those of you who study CAPM and stuff). However, there are some flaws to this assumptions.

But in the 1930s, President Roosevelt devalued the dollar by more than half when the dollar was re-pegged to Gold. In the 1970s, President Nixon took the dollar off the gold standard after the French President Charles DeGaulle wanted to exchange the French US Dollar Holdings for gold! In the 1950s, interest rates on long bonds was actually capped at 2+%!

Truth - While in many instances, US T-bills can be considered the safest assets, this only holds true if the US currency does not devalue massively. Today, we are seeing signs that countries like China are wary about their US Dollar reserves and also do not like the fact that the US Dollar's role as the international currency of choice means that we can get away with deficit spending. There is no guarantee that the dollar may lose it's reserve currency stature in future and if that happens, the US dollar will have depreciated a long way. Moral of the story is : have some of your other savings in other currencies and study how to keep your money safe. Perhaps, some gold investments would be good for you?

Reaching a retirement savings of a million dollars is a desirable goal - Another one of those myths that floats around the mainstream media. What puzzles me is that nobody questions this number at all. If a great retirement is your goal, I think that you will find that this number is really not enough. Why?

Using monte carlo analysis, it has determined that by withdrawing up to 4% of your retirement nest egg, you have a more than 85% chance of having your portfolio intact after 30 years. 4% of $1mm is $40,000 a year. And this is after tax money. Firstly, I doubt anyone can live with that amount in a high cost city like New York. Secondly, after factoring in health insurance and all other cost, there ain't much left!

What the mainstream media fail to tell folks is that planning for a career in "retirement" is more important than just "saving for retirement" itself. Afterall, savings can evaporate (ask anyone what happened to their 401ks in 2008). Your countries currency can become worthless (ask any middle Argentinian, or Russian). In the 30s, Germany went through hyperinflation.

Truth - With inflationary monetary policy as part of the western developed world for the last century, the whole million dollar is enough notion will face greater scrutiny sooner or later. You'll probably need much more to enjoy the same standard of living as you have now. If you are earning $100,000 a year today, based on 4% withdrawal rate, you'll need $4 million in retirement savings to have a good chance of achieving the same standard of living.

Small Deficits are OK - The US government has no problems perpetually running budget deficits (saying 3% deficit is OK!). All I can say is that if any household runs a budget deficit for too long, they will sooner or later have to file for bankruptcy. Well, I guess developed countries government like the US can run budget deficits for a longer time than most ordinary households. But sooner or later one's past sins will always catch up.

Deficit spending has a nasty habit of being justified by something that is "really needed". We need to provide health care (very expensive) for the elderly. We need massive military spending. We are fighting two wars. We need to spend money on various programs.

But this mentality spills over to our individual's personal financial life as well. Many folks will say it is "OK" to put the plumbing repairs on the credit card, because we'll "pay it off soon"! Problem is that just like the federal government, most folks do not pay it off. Once in a while, certain "freebies" come along that make our debt load easier. In the case of the federal government, easy monetary policy allows US government debt to be issued at relatively low interest rates. The easy monetary policy has trickled down into the consumer world via promotions like 0% financing for cars, 0% balance transfer credit cards, or even low interest credit cards. For quite long periods of time, these easy monetary policies enabled the federal government and US consumers to "fund deficit spending".

Truth - Debt should be shunned at all cost. What starts as a small amount eventually becomes a habit that becomes very hard to kick.

Global Savings Glut by Emerging Countries Responsible for Global Imbalance - Here's another common economist rant. China, and the Asian emerging economies are savers (which everyone actually acknowledges is good). But they save too much! Because global trade is conducted in US Dollars, countries with trade surpluses have excess savings in US Dollars. And the dollars has to be invested somewhere. The most natural home is US treasuries (ie US government debt). Hence, even if the US is running a persistent budget deficit, savers abroad have no where else but to invest with us. The result for all that is that interest rates and mortgage rates remained low even though our debt picture shouldn't have allowed it.

So what do we tell China and the rest of the world's savers? Don't save so much. Introduce social welfare and health care so people do not have to save so much and they can "spend"! This is one of the worst advice I've heard. We have trouble controlling spending in medicare and social security and now we're telling savers to follow our vices!.

Truth - Truth is the problem is not with savings. It is with the fact that the world conducts it's commerce mainly in US dollars. Savings is the only way to wealth. Savings (just like an emergency fund) gives you cushion. China, for example, could pump billions into their economy without having to borrow from anyone! The good old US however authorized over $700 billion in spending (which by the way they printed!) and they actually have to borrow it from the financial markets. And that is the big problem with having debt. You have to keep issuing IOUs! China's billions was simply gotten by converting their US dollars reserves into Yuan! In personal finance, the same principals apply. When you have debt, whether it is a mortgage, a home equity line of credit or credit card debt, you are constantly on the treadmill trying to find a better card or loan with a better rate. Contrast that to someone who, for example, pays his balance in full. That person can actually use a cash back credit card or gas credit cards to earn cash rebates. Unlike the person having to pay down his or her balance, the person paying in full actually makes money!

Term Life Insurance is Always Better Than Whole Life - Here is another phrase that has been hyped up by the Suze Ormans of the world and literally the whole finance bloggers world. Everyone hates whole life. What nobody has ever properly explained is the cons of term life. So let's look at a few here:

Term life insurance ends after a term - proponents would claim that

1. You can save the money on whole life and invest the difference
2. You do not need insurance after 20 or 30 years cos you have saved enough
3. Term is more cost effective

Problem is nobody tells the downside. The first downside is that

1. The annual premium for term life goes up every year!
2. To maintain the same insurance, you have to keep paying premiums every year. When you are retired and have no "work income" but only portfolio income, monthly payments are a really pain in the B***. For whole life, once you have paid up, it really means you have paid up!
3. By the time you are 50 or 60, you may not have saved enough and your beneficiaries still need money from insurance if you pass away!
4. You have a disabled child and whole life or permanent insurance is the only way to fund it (after all, their needs are permanent!)

Truth - Term life may or may not be more suitable for you. It really depends on your particular situation.

I think I'll stop here. I hope this post makes you think harder and question common teachings and assumptions in the world of personal finance, or anything in fact.

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